Comforting Your Heart And Heightening Your Hope

courage happiness love peace Apr 01, 2020

This is a message of love.

We are all at present going through a challenging time and we are in it together. My heartfelt intention in this blog article is to comfort your heart and heighten your hope.

I wrote YES! TO Love™ because I was committed to saving lives from burnout and despair. It is the reason why the subtitle of the book is “The Ultimate Guide To Personal Transformation For Everyday Life Balance.”

The majority of us have most probably reacted to the coronavirus pandemic in a state of shock. We were all getting on with our lives and unexpectedly and out of nowhere we have to isolate, work from home or stop work completely in order to stay safe and healthy.

My warm appreciation goes to the medical and service professionals who are still serving us every day face to face.

However, throughout history there have been economic crises and wars and human beings have always recovered because we are resilient by nature, we bounce back and we have faith whether...

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Learn My Three Tips On How To Raise Your Self Esteem

Do you struggle with a low self-esteem?

Self-esteem is such a vast subject and a lack of self-esteem affects so many aspects of your life, namely: your relationships, happiness, work and success.

For example:

  • Do you believe that you are not good enough?
  • Do you neglect your own needs?
  • Do you find it difficult to say ‘no’?
  • Do you sabotage your own success?
  • Do you bottle up your true feelings?
  • Are you afraid of making mistakes?
  • Do you mistrust your inner guidance?
  • Do you have a high sense of guilt?

If this is you, I share with you in this blog article three tips you can use now to raise your self-esteem.

Nathaniel Branden gives us the best definition of self-esteem In his bestselling book “The Six Pillars Of Self-Esteem”:

“Self-esteem fully realized, is the experience that we are appropriate to life and to the requirements of life. More specifically, self-esteem is:

  1. Confidence in our ability to think, confidence in our ability to cope with the basic...
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New Year, New You Review

Have you achieved your goals in 2018?

We are now less than one month away from the new year and it is time to review what you have achieved in 2018 no matter how big or small. In order to support this article and to measure your progress and successes I am going to review the article I wrote at the beginning of this year entitled: “New Year, New You…!”

In “New Year, New You…!” I invited you to start the new year afresh. There is something very positive and exciting about beginning the year as if it was an entirely new start.

Let us review the questions and tips I outlined in “New Year, New You…!”  so that you can measure your progress now that we are nearly reaching the end of 2018.

What are your successes in 2018?

  • Did you take the opportunity in 2018 to create something new in your life so that you could regain your zest for life and bring the excitement and passion back?

Review of tip #1: What life are you designing...

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Learn The 3 Mistakes Single Mums Should Avoid

According to the statistics around 90% of single parents in the UK are women.

It takes a lot of courage, hard work and resilience to bring up a child or children single handily. I know how it feels, this was my mum’s story. From the late 60s, my mum brought up three children single handily. I was so aware of her suffering, her sense of guilt, shame, failure and her feelings of doubt and worry. Yet she managed and my sister, brother and I are her greatest pride and achievement to this day.

As a Transformational Change Agent, my life’s purpose is to support, empower and inspire women to regain their zest for life through love and joy in the context of understanding and compassion. If you are a single mum reading this article I know what you are going through and I would like to share with you the 3 mistakes single mums should avoid so that they can feel good about themselves, rebuild their life and regain their zest for life.

Mistake #1: they let themselves go

You have...

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4 Poweful Ways to Let Go of Suffering...

Do you struggle with implementing change in your life?

There is tremendous power in letting go because it allows you to move forward in your life, to grow personally, to forgive, to forget and to stop resisting change. I understand that your resistance to change is normal because it is a big step to come out of your comfort zone so that you can transform yourself and your life for the better.

However, how can you best stop resisting change?

I want you to remember a time in your life when you stopped resisting and said YES! to change and the outcome was very positive and worthwhile.

If you are stuck right now and you are struggling with letting go despite the fact that you desire change in your life I am going to share with you in this blog article 4 powerful ways to let go of suffering so that you can regain your zest for life.

1. Trust

Take a leap of faith and trust that any change in your life is part of your growth process. I know it might be difficult to accept. However, it is...

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3 Signs That You Are At A Turning Point In Your Life

Do you feel that you are at a turning point in your life however you are unsure and you do not know what step to take next?

In this blog article I share with you 3 signs that you are at a turning point in your life and 3 things you can do to move forward toward the new life you wish to create.

Let us begin with...

Sign #1 that you are at a turning point in your life

 

You cannot make sense of your life any more. You know that something is not quite right, you want to improve your life however you do not know where to start and how to go about it.

Your lack of clarity creates more confusion.

What can you do to move forward?

It is time to get clear about what you want.

A very simple step is to get clear and identify in what area of your life you are most dissatisfied. Once you have identified what area of your life you wish to improve you must set clear objectives in order to move forward. If you identify that all the areas of your life need improvement you must prioritize and...

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How to Ligthen Up Your Workbook of Life...

When you look at your life as a workbook you understand that your life’s challenges and tribulations are lessons to be learnt.

Indeed, when you understand and believe that your life is a workbook of problems to be solved you realise that every problem and challenge in your life serves a purpose.

The sole purpose of your workbook of problems to be solved is to help you grow spiritually as a human being.

From this perspective onwards, it is therefore easier to consider your life’s challenges as allies i.e. as something happening for you and not to you or against you.

When you approach your life from this perspective you give yourself permission to experience life as a gift.

 My intention in this blog article is to share with you 5 ways you can lighten up your workbook of life:

  1. Be grateful

The magic of life always starts with gratefulness. It is from this place of gratefulness that you can count your blessings. The more grateful you are the more you live your life...

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Change Your Paradigms, Change Your Life

As shown by the statistics at least 45% of people want to create change in their life since they make resolutions at the beginning of every year. However, only 8% actually accomplish their dream.

Albert Einstein said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again whilst expecting a different result.

It is clear that you cannot change your results or create change whilst adopting the same habits, which created the imbalances in the first place.

What is the solution?

  • Change your paradigms or multitude of habits.

Indeed, if you are not getting the results that you want there is something that you do, which gets in the way of your new resolution and you must change it.

What habits are you to change?

Your thoughts

It is possible that your thoughts are not supportive of the change you desire.

Your beliefs

It is possible that your beliefs are not supportive of the change you desire.

Your actions

It is possible that you actions are not supportive of the change you desire.

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3 Steps to Stay on Track and Keep Your Resolution

We are now more than half way through the year and you probably made some new year's resolutions last January such as: eat better, exercise more, spend less money, self-care, read more books, learn a new skill, get a new job, make new friends, get a new hobby, focus more on appearance etc. (according to YouGov poll these are the most popular new-year's resolutions for 2018).

  • How are you getting on?
  • How are you progressing?

Before I share with you the 3 Steps to Stay on track and Keep Your Resolution let us first look at what might be getting in the way.

1. You made a resolution but you do not really believe you can accomplish it

2. You are not sure that the grass is greener on the other side.

3. You are too busy doing other things and you have lost track.

These obstacles are very common and the statistics show that only 8% of people actually keep their resolutions.

Are you among the 8%? If not, below are 3 steps to stay on track and keep your resolution:

Step #1: Implement 'The...

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Discover The 3 Secrets To Perseverance When You Want To Be On Purpose

Dr Wayne Dyer said that too many people die with their music still in them. What Dr Dyer meant was that many people have dreams but alas they never manage to accomplish them. Let this not be you...

I understand that sometimes you might not see the light at the end of the tunnel and you might feel like giving up on your dreams, however I would like to sheer you on by saying keep persevering!

In this blog article I share with you the 3 secrets to perseverance when you want to be on purpose:

Secret #1: Perseverance = Progress

Should you be disciplined, focused and consistent you are most certainly moving forward in the direction of your dream faster than you think. You might have the tendency to be hard on yourself because things do not seem to be moving ahead as quickly as you would like them to. However, trust:

  • Firstly, that everything in the universe is in perfect divine timing
  • Secondly that every step you take is a step up the ladder of success. You progress whenever you are...
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