Discover 7 Ways to Increase Calmness of Mind for More Peace, Joy and Happiness

James Allen said:

This quote by James Allen “Calmness of mind is one of the beautiful jewels of wisdom” reveals to us that the more we cultivate a calm mind the wiser we become. As a result, the wisdom we attain helps us to live a more peaceful, loving, joyful and happy life.

However, if you spend most of your time on the computer, your mobile phone, watching TV etc. or being busy absorbing countless sources of information calmness of mind might delude you. In this blog article I am going to share with you 7 ways you can increase calmness of mind so that you enjoy more peace, love, joy and happiness in your life.

1. Grow in wisdom

The joy of inner peace and calmness is simply the habit of returning to a state of peace at all times. This is important especially when you feel troubled and face many problems and challenges.

The more you move toward inner peace the more you lighten up your heart. Heaviness of the heart is due to all of the negative emotions you are attached...

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How to Use Fear Positively...

F.e.a.r (false expectation appearing real) seems to be epidemic in our world and it is clear that the importance we attach to it can keep us paralysed and stuck. However, should you wish to uncover and fulfil your life’s purpose it is important to learn how to use whatever fear you may have positively so that it serves you well.

Can fear serve you positively when you want to uncover and fulfil your life’s purpose?

My answer to this question is YES! and I want to you how in this article.

1. Get unstuck

In order to get unstuck and change your results you must make the decision to do things differently. What most other people do when they are faced with fear is to remain stuck in the fear. Yet in order to let go of fear it must first be acknowledged and accepted. When you let go of resistance, you allow your fear to become your friendly ally and you can move forward and keep going.

Susan Jeffers said: "Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway" in her book of the same title and she is...

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8 Signs That You Might Be On The Road Of Burnout

The feeling of burnout expresses itself when you least expect it and knowing the signs leading to burnout is essential to avoid reaching that stage and to promote instead a healthy lifestyle.

Do you remember Beth's story? If you have not read her full story please click here.

In this blog article I share with you 8 signs that you might lead you to the road of burnout.

  1. Indulging in excessive all-nighters

This means staying up very late more often than not and not allowing your body to rest. When you sleep your body goes through a healing process. Adequate sleep is beneficial for a healthy heart, immune system, alertness, concentration, libido and mood among others. Therefore, the better your quality of sleep the better you will feel. Sleep deprivation puts too much stress on your wellbeing.

  1. Being constantly on the move

Are you constantly on the move and unable to find the time to rest? For example, do you travel frequently for work? if so, how do you allow yourself to recoup...

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Burnout, Really? Beth's Story...

"I was completely exhausted...": she said. "The doctor told me I had to stop work for 6 months and if I wanted to return to the same job it would have to be part-time."

"What happened Beth?": I asked.

"My doctor's diagnosis was burn out. I could not function any more. I had no energy, I was living like a zombie, I felt totally numb and empty, and I had lost touch with who I am," she replied.

As a mother of 2 children and Patrick's wife, Beth had given her whole self to her family. She was the epitome of love that gives: she dedicated her whole life to her children and her husband. However, she was consumed by too much doing and not enough being.

Beth had another problem, she was a people pleaser; she could not say "no" even when she felt like saying "no". She wanted to please everyone and to disappoint no-one. Whenever she put her heart into something she had to give 110%. Therefore, her perfectionism also meant that she could not say "no". Everything had to be perfect, she...

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Discover 3 Ways To Overcome Analysis Paralysis

* Do you have the tendency to over-analyze or overthink?

* Do you need to have all the data, nitty gritty details before you make a decision?

* Are you a perfectionist?

Is this you?

Someone shares an idea with you or you come up with an idea and you have to over-analyze or overthink it. You want to go deeper and deeper in your analysis and feel that you need to know more and more, however you do not come up with a clear outcome.

You fall victim of analysis paralysis or paralysis analysis when you:

  • Make the content and context more complicated than they are
  • Analyze the pros and cons and focus primarily on the cons
  • Think, debate and compare all options for hours: “would A option work or would B option work?”
  • Spin your wheel in total confusion and this drains your energy.

It is a good to look at things in details but not to the point where it paralyses you and stops you from taking the first step and moving forward.

Here are three ways you could overcome analysis...

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How To Recognize Early Signs Of Stress

stress management Oct 10, 2017

I have heard many people say after a wellness or complementary treatment: “Wow! I did not know I was holding so much stress!”

Stress can take many forms; mental, physical, emotional and environmental and it can create many imbalances. 

In this blog article I share with you how to recognize acute signs of stress so that they do not escalate into chronic stress.

Let me explain what I mean by acute and chronic stress:

Acute stress is also known as 'the fight or flight' response, whereby the body prepares to defend itself and it takes about 90 minutes for the metabolism to return to normal.

Chronic stress relates to the demands of daily life. This is the stress we tend to ignore and if left unchecked it can have dramatic effects on our health and well-being.

It is worth emphasizing that each individual responds differently to stress.

 

Stress can make you excited under certain circumstances, like exercising, falling in love or meeting the challenges of an...

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Finding Peace Within...

There might be times when you are with anger, impatience or you feel frustrated, out of place, tired, overwhelmed by too many challenges overflowing at the same time. It is during these moments of upheaval that you must let finding peace within become your personal motto.

I share in my book YES! TO Love™ Jonathan's story. Jonathan had a conflicting relationship with one of his siblings and this affected the family dynamic. My advice to Jonathan was to change the way he perceived his brother altogether to one of love. Jonathan portrayed a negative image of his brother, expressed disapproval and lacked compassion. However, a change in perception meant that it was time for him to forgive his brother for his actions by sending him love. In addition, Jonathan had to forgive himself for expecting his brother to be or behave in a certain way, the way he wanted him to be or behave. Sending love to another through prayers and meditation is very powerful. As a result of healing his...

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How To Stop Feeling Overwhelmed

The feeling of being overwhelmed is often related to your relationship with time: "I cannot cope..."; "This is taking too much of my time"; "I am not enjoying this at all..."; "I have too much to do and not enough time to do it..." etc. In this article I share with you 3 ways you can overcome the feeling of being overwhelmed and find greater inner peace.

1. Change your mindset

Invite more ease in everything that you do by focusing on:

Intention - Attention - No tension

In other words, you intend to carry out the work at hand, you draw your attention to it, however you insist on doing it with ease as opposed to creating too much tension around it.

For example, you might be carrying out a task you might not like particularly and you associate it with words of hardship, like: "This is so much work..." or "This is such hard work..." etc. This will make it harder for you.

The build up of tension gives us an adrenaline rush however it is not sustainable long term because it would generate...

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